Today, I will begin a multi-part series of articles with guidance and resources for those looking at the possibility of moving a loved one to a long-term care facility. Placing a loved one in a nursing home is one of the most difficult decisions that a family makes for a loved one. Sometimes this is the best option moving forward. When this time comes prospective residents, and their families should have the best information possible to assist in making this decision.
First explore all options and alternatives, if possible, plan for possible long-term care needs in the future. If an individual and those close to them can discuss preferences related to long-term care and plan a head of time, decisions and arrangements are much easier when the need for long-term care arrives.
Before you look for a nursing home, be sure your loved one’s condition and support system has been thoroughly evaluated. When properly diagnosed and treated some conditions may improve significantly. Also, some people with serious medical conditions can remain at home with the proper support system. Have open and honest conversations with your loved one to see what it is they need or would like to see happen.
If your loved one has some difficulties with communicating their wishes or has some level of difficulty with understanding it is still important to include them in all aspects of their care. Most people prefer to stay in their own home, so you may need to look into options for home care which include home care with aides or assisted living or family and/or friends willing to be a helper. Your local Area Wide Agency on Aging will be able to provide some information and assistance if home care is the plan. The number for SWODA AAA is 580-562-4882.
If it is not possible or if your loved one requires more care and support than can be safely given in their home, it is time to research nursing home long-term care or short-stay rehab options. Next month, we will discuss evaluating possible nursing home options.
Remember, if you or a loved one is in longterm care and has concerns, questions, or complaints, reach out to your area Long-Term Care Ombudsman Cherrie Nutley at 580-5625032.